How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Why do you think most harem anime and manga have lame male protagonists that would be considered losers and pathetic by most people?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What I need from you?

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Ask yourself:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Does not procrastinate.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What are some great short jokes?

That's it for today.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Which daily habits can help you keep a clear and positive mind?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.